Dildos

Dildos come in so many different shapes and sizes that there is one for practically every individual taste, need, and desire. There are dildos that look like penises (with balls and realistic-looking heads), dildos that look like torpedoes, and even dildos that look like dolphins. Dildos are made of silicone, latex, or vinyl. Silicone toys tend to be more flexible, smooth, and nonporous, so they're easy to clean. Latex or vinyl is less resilient than silicone but still relatively nonporous. Jellylike dildos (and butt plugs) are very porous and should always be used with a condom. Dildos that curve up from the base (instead of being straight) are often better suited to anal intercourse because they nicely mirror the curve of the rectum. Dildos are the best tools for in-and-out penetration.

For a woman who wants to experience anal penetration with a male partner whose penis is either too big or too long for comfort, dildos provide a great alternative. (A less common scenario is a woman whose partner's penis is not big enough, in which case a dildo can give a girl what she needs). Likewise, for a man who likes to be penetrated by something other than his female partner's fingers, or who wants to experience "being fucked up the ass with a cock," a woman can strap a dildo between her legs and satisfy that desire.

I'm more of a finger/tongue person. But I did once strap on a dildo and do my boyfriend from behind. It was fun but a little awkward because I am shorter than him so I couldn't really reach his head to kiss him. I love the response of my partner [when I am fucking his ass], it gets me more excited. And I like the notion of penetrating someone else's body. Many women who have sex with other women also like to use dildos to penetrate their partners. Women can experiment with a variety of sizes to find which one is most comfortable. Dildos can give that full feeling as well as satisfy the craving to fuck and be fucked.

Some people like to penetrate their partner with a dildo held in their hand; this tends to give the active partner more control of the dildo and its movement. Others opt to wear a dildo in a harness and have their hands free for other activities. Most harnesses are designed to have the dildo rest in place between one's legs. While lots of women love to fuck this way, a word to novices: like just about everything else, it takes practice. So, for all you guys out there who are thrilled at the idea of a girl with a dick doing you, have some patience while she practices her technique; remember the first time you used that tool of yours, and give her a break while she figures hers out. And for all women fucking with dildos, make sure you talk to your partner, ask what she or he likes, and try different positions to see what works best for both of you. There is also a harness on the market that you strap to your thigh; many women find the thigh harness a great alternative, giving them better flexibility and control of a dildo. The thigh harness is also a way to rectify a significant difference in height or size between two partners.